Monday, October 25, 2010

Our cross country trek

So much to blog, so little time! I'll try to catch up, but no guarantees. :)

I feel like our cross-country drive to move from Nevada to Connecticut was pretty epic. We passed through 12 states and 3 time zones in 4 days.

Day 1 (Friday): First 3 states; Nevada, Arizona, Utah. We left Las Vegas around noon and drove up to Provo where we enjoyed dinner at India Palace (so good. I seriously miss that place) and met up with some friends. Then on up to Tooele to spend the night with Brittany and fam! We had so much fun hanging out and playing with them again. We took Saturday off from driving to get in some quality family time since we don't know when we'll get to see them again. :(

Day 2 (Sunday): Next 2 states; Wyoming, Nebraska. We left around 10 am, not sure how far we would be able to make it. Turns out, Wesley is a Road Trip Warrior! He was amazing. We'd let him play around in the morning before strapping him down, then he'd fall asleep briefly or just play in his car seat until lunch time. We'd stop and eat, let him run around and play more, then hit the road again. He usually takes a nap right after lunch so this was perfect to him. He'd sleep for a few hours and play in his seat or demand snacks once he woke up until we'd stop for dinner. Pretty much same story with lunch here. Back in the seat for a DVD and usually some whining until he'd fall asleep and stay asleep until we decided we had to park it for the night.

This was our first hard-core, all-day, drive-til-you-drop day and we went somewhere in the neighborhood of 900 miles. Woo hoo! We were originally thinking we would take 5 days to do the trip, but seeing Wesley's awesome-ness on the road we decided to push hard and see if we could make it sooner.

As for the drive itself, we are really going to miss Utah. The beautiful mountains and trees... it's just a very familiar landscape that has felt like home for a long time.

We are very glad we don't live in Wyoming. No offense to those that do, all 600 of you, but that place seems rough! Untamed wilderness... and COLD. It doesn't help that it was gray and stormy as we passed through but it seemed like such a lone and dreary kinda place.

Nebraska was much better than I thought it would be. I'd never thought much about Nebraska... just one of those northern-midwesty types of places full of prairie and cornfields. I know, the stereotyping!! But truly it was very beautiful. This was the first place where we saw pretty fall colors. And driving through made me wanna yell GO CORNHUSKERS!! That place has some serious school pride and I love it!

Day 3 (Monday): Next 4 states; Iowa, Illinois, Indiana, Ohio. After our night at the hotel in Lincoln, NE, we hit the road again, left the home of the Cornhuskers and headed into Iowa. My earliest memory of Iowa was as a kid, I was playing a geography trivia game with my brother Clark. He was 8 years older and about 30 years smarter and I had no chance against him. I was losing pathetically and I got the question: Which state has more pigs than people? Exasperated, I said, "I dunno. Iowa?" And I got it right. For some reason, that's the only thing I've ever remembered about Iowa. Then in college I met someone from Iowa (2 people actually!) and was really surprised that they were normal. (Hi Preston! hehe) Here I go again with my state stereotyping... On that note, I was expecting Iowa to be more like Wyoming. But it was really pretty! Just very serene and natural. I liked it. For the first few hours. And then I got very very bored. Sorry Iowa, but now I just think you have a lot of pigs and you are boring.

It was quite a relief to get to Illinois just for a change of pace. We pulled off in Princeton, IL which claimed to be the birthplace of Ronald Reagan even though it is 30 miles away... maybe they couldn't come up with anything else to claim... I mean, "We have a Wendy's" isn't a really impressive subtitle for your "Welcome to Princeton" sign I guess, although it would have been more accurate. Anyway, when we finished our dinner break and carried on, we got stuck in a construction traffic jam for about 2 hours and made amazing progress of 10 miles in that time. Wesley watched the entire Bee Movie as we creeped along going nowhere. Thanks Illinois. We were making great progress.

And now a brief rant about road construction. Along our roughly 2800 miles, we passed probably around 100 construction workers. Of those 100, probably 6 were doing any actual work. The rest seemed to be observing the intricate swirls that the cream made in their coffee. Thank you government, for wasting my money so efficiently.

Anyway, we finally made it out of Illinois and into Indiana. Most of Indiana passed us by in the dark, so unfortunatey, I don't have any pleasant words about how the scenery was, though I'm sure it was lovely. The thing that will make Indiana live in infamy in the memory of these 3 Avarells forever: TOLLBOOTH. We were planning to stop somewhere near Cleveland, OH for the night. At first this seemed like a very doable task. Then our 2 hour delay in Illinois made us rethink. We decided to stop in Toledo. Even with that, we were going to get in later than we wanted to. We were getting tired and just ready to get to the hotel. Things were looking promising when it was time to cross the Indiana-Ohio border. We pull up to a giant toll plaza that has about 8 lanes for FastPass people that no one is using. Then there are 2 lanes open for everybody else. Both lines are absurdly long. We sat there for-I kid you not- 20 minutes waiting to PAY to LEAVE the state we didn't want to be in in the first place!! Each minute we sat there wondering what the devil was taking so long was a giant test of self-control not to throw a raging fit. We even saw one person get out of their car and go stomping up to the booth to see what the dang hold up was. I'm not sure what they discovered, because when we finally got up there, there was just a machine ready to take your toll ticket and credit card. No person. Just that stupid machine. If you've ever seen most people at the self-checkout lane of a grocery store, then you can assume what the hold-up was. Frustrating, that's what it was. Maybe the circumstance would have been different if we hadn't spent all day in a car, if we weren't already exhausted, if the stopping hadn't awakened our peacefully sleeping baby and turned him into a very whiny and irritated baby... even still... Indiana: If you are reading this blog, fix that stupid toll booth! You only need 2 fastpass lanes and you need people working the cash lanes! I saw lots of construction workers that needed something to do, you can get them to do it.

Day 4 (Tuesday): Last 3 states; Pennsylvania, New York, and CONNECTICUT!! We decided to forgive the road and get back on it just because we were so close. We drove the rest of the way through Ohio and loved the scenery. The fall colors were in full swing and it was beautiful.

Also, this was our first day of illegal driving. We had bought a new car in Vegas and the temp plate was only good through October 11 and this was the 12th. Not to mention we have black limo tint on all the windows which is legal and necessary in Vegas and illegal and sketchy almost everywhere else. Some hotel maintenance guy was eager to tell us that while our tint was awesome, it is illegal here in Ohio. Thanks. So anyway, we were holding our breath and praying that we would be able to fly under the radar the rest of the way. At one point, we were cruisin along and passed a cop parked at an emergency turn-around spot. We weren't speeding (we weren't about to push our luck) but the cop whipped around and pulled out just as we passed. Dangit. Both Eric and I let out an Ahhhh man! and I pull the proof of insurance from the glove box. But then he just cruises along behind us. Never turns on his lights, just checks us out for a while. What the heck? We thought he must have pulled out to chase the guy that sped by us, but then he followed us...? is was very weird and uncomfortable. We were planning to pull off for gas soon anyway, so after being tailed by the cop for a mile or two, we pulled off at a gas station fully expecting him to pull in with us. He didn't though, just kept on cruisin. Weird. Eric started filling up the car and I was getting Wesley up and some trucker came up and started talking to us. "Oh you musta been so scared! I said I bet he's pullin off to go pee! I noticed you got real dark tint on there and it's a new car but I could see yous was white. I thought he was goin after that blue car cuz they were muslim!" We responded with a few, "Yeah that was weird, huh, yep, oh"s but mostly I was thinking that truckers must get so bored. That was probably the most exciting thing he'd seen in a few hours.

Anyway, we made it through Ohio without getting pulled over and came into Pennsylvania. I'd heard that it was a beautiful state, but oh MY! It was definitely the most beautiful state we drove through! The colors were INCREDIBLE! There would be huge patches of bright red, orange, yellow, green, and gold trees and then it would open into a section of rolling hills and grass. There were gorgeous rock faces with trees growing at impossible angles... I can't even describe it. We'll definitely be going back to Pennsylvania. And because we are HUGE fans of The Office, we stopped for dinner in Scranton. :) What a funny place. Mostly funny because we have all sorts of Office associations with it, but it is sorta the perfect setting for the show. Very industrial and acting like it's nicer/cooler than it really is. We had no clue where to eat and we were sick of fast food, so we figured there would be restaurants by the mall. Wellll there weren't. If we had more time I'm sure we could have found something, but we were starving so we just ate at the food court of the SteamTown Mall. hehhehe. Which I must say was terribly unimpressive. It was a fun stop nonetheless.

Back on the road I called to make a reservation at the hotel near our place that we were planning to stay at only to find it was all booked. As were all of the surrounding hotels. Dangit. I whipped out Eric's laptop and starting looking on Hotels.com as we passed into New York. We were getting so close! We were 10 miles from the Connecticut border, Wesley is fast asleep in the back, and I was searching for a hotel room within 20 miles of our new home. Then Eric says, "Oh no." That's never good. What? Then I see the lights in our rearview mirror. For REAL? We got pulled over by a stealth cop.

I honestly had to laugh. We had gone over 2600 miles and had only about 60 to go and we get pulled over. And our story has to sound so ridiculous. We hand the New York cop our Utah driver licenses, Nevada car insurance, on our way to Connecticut. "So we moved from Utah and were temporarily living in Nevada where we bought the car and now we are moving to Connecticut. We couldn't register it in Nevada because we were leaving the state and we couldn't register it in Connecticut because we weren't there yet." The confused cop was gone for a while (too long, it started to make us think he was actually gonna find some way to ticket us) when he came back and said he had been trying to verify the VIN number (basically he was hoping we'd stolen the car) and then just said that we needed to get it registered. 10-4 good buddy. Silly New York. We stopped for gas shortly after that and I went to the bathroom in the most disgusting bathroom of the drive. Ewwwwww. I thought I was going to die of bad smells.

And then finally, CONNECTICUT!! We made it! We actually stayed in a hotel about a mile away from our apartment. When we woke up and went outside in the daylight, we were so happy. It is BEAUTIFUL here! Fall is in full bloom and the colors are gorgeous. I love our apartment and our town. It already feels like home. Honestly though, I don't know how anyone moves and adjusts to a new place without being a member of the church. Wednesday night the Elder's Quorum came and unloaded our entire POD into our apartment in 45 minutes. A member of the Relief Society presidency came and gave me the run down on all the upcoming activities. On Friday I found our church building and met a ton of awesome ladies. Saturday a new friend brought us cookies. Sunday we were invited to dinner. Wednesday I took Wesley to a preschooly type playgroup thing. Friday we went to a birthday party. This place is amazing. Everyone has been so friendly so far and it has been easy to make friends and get to know people. We picked our own apples and took Wesley to a pumpkin patch and corn maze. We've been here less than 2 weeks but it feels like home. This is our place!

*If you made it through all of this, you are either my mom or a real trooper!

11 comments:

LadyCarma said...

How about both! I finally got on Clark's laptop and got to see your blog. I loved the story and the humor. You are so funny. Thanks for sharing.

Lana said...

I am, of course, a real trooper. Loved the story. Hilarious little bits in there--especially the construction workers doing the toll booth idea and the trucker's racism. Classic. :)

Great story. Wish I were there enjoying those beautiful colors of fall and apple orchards!!

Love you!

Preston and Angie said...

Haha. I have to admit, I skimmed parts of it. But, mostly read it all. It sounds very exciting!! I'm glad Wesley's a warrior! We were pleased that Brayden was awesome too! We drove to Florida in 2 and a half days. One day to Iowa (thanks for the mention of Preston, who is mostly normal. haha. ok, he's very normal. More than normal even.) a half day to Missouri to visit grandparents and then to Florida. It's quite an adventure driving across country! Glad you made it. Glad the people are nice. and Glad you like it so far!! If you're ever headed to Disney World, let us know!!!

LadyEm said...

I like that you like my state. :) Sorry if the roads were less than likable however, but maybe they have improved them in the last 10 years. I also LOVE Connecticut and think it is gorgeous there as well. I'm sure your ward is thrilled to have you--I'm glad they have been so helpful. Good luck Staci!

Kate Challis said...

So this was way fun to read. I've made that trek between six and a dozen times since I'm from Western Mass. What city are you in in CT? My parents will be going to the Hartford Temple once it's built. I took a semester off while at BYU and spent most of the time chilling with my institute buddies either up in Amherst or down in Hartford, they were equally far away. CT is a great state. Western CT is like totally full of wealthy people since it's basically the "bedroom community" for the extremely wealthy New Yorkers.

Yeah, you can't speed or do anything illegal on that one stretch of highway in NY. Probably you were on I-90? They are super vigilant. That's how NY funds it's downtown road projects, I guess.

Thinking about the things you wrote about seeing all these places for the first time (or nearly first time) got me thinking a lot; I guess I just assumed most people had made a zillion and a half road trips like my family, who has done the Mass-Texas trip forever, and the Mass-Utah trip since we kids have been in college. I don't remember not having been to 30 something of the 50 states.

But the truth is, I hadn't even been to CA until visiting Cindy's family in college! Or Nevada - and I've never been to Idaho or Oregon or Washington...I think the main thing is that the Western states are way more spread out? I mean, you travel 8 hours from Provo to Denver and you've passed 1 state. You travel 8 hours from Mass to Washington D.C. practically, and that's like 8 states or something.

I'm glad Wesley was good for you on your trip. Thanks for the fun post.

Kate Challis said...

You're making me remember things about CT: that semester I was home, I actually worked there in Enfield. The people I dated who lived there - getting lost in Stamford for over an hour driving home from NYC - West Hartford and it's cow sculptures that my family went to see for a random FHE activity - the beautiful, beautiful roads with trees and how Danny's grandparents describe it as "driving through a green tunnel". Oh man, you are so lucky! CT is a neat place. There's way, way more members in Western CT than in Western MA (most LDS people in MA are in the Boston area I think) but I'm not sure if that's where you are. I'm glad you feel like it's home. You're totally right about having church members make a place automatically be a home. How DO people without the church move? Mostly, how do people without the church ever make friends????

Marilyn said...

Does a "mother-in-law" count? I loved reading it! Way more informative than when I talked to Eric about the trip... I'm so glad you arrived safely, unticketed, and that your new area feels like home. We sure love and miss you. What a lucky state...to add you three to their population!

sarahflib said...

I'm not your mom, but I don't mind being classed with her. Thanks for the recap of your trip! And I'm glad you had good things to say about Pennsylvania, since it's my state-in-law.

Allyson & Jere said...

Before I say anything else...SAD for you that Indiana was in the dark. Just trust me when I say, it is a GORGEOUS state.

That said, I'm a super trooper and read every word. It was interesting to see how your drive went. And you're absolutely right, I have NO idea how anyone does anything without the church. There is such a built in family that is so comforting.

Of COURSE everyone is cool and helpful and you're fitting right in. This is ONE because you guys are super cool and people can just sense that. And TWO...you moved to a place where I assure you the ward is giddy that a cute young, aCTIVE family has moved into the ward. Where the church is small they truly cherish eachother.

Glad you're happy there. Good luck with all things Conneticut.

Michelle said...

I'm a trooper!! What an adventure, wifey! I am so exicted for your new life. I desperately neeeeed to talk to you, yet even now I am writing this from work. boo. I love you. believe that. Life's been more than busy (is there really not even enough time to get a decent amount of sleep at night?) But you best be expecting a call oh so soon. Love you!

Christie said...

I'm with you on that IL traffic!!!